The more I think about it, the more troubled I am by the news that two people died and many others were severely injured while attending a "Spiritual Warrior" event hosted by self-help motivational trainer James Ray.
It appears that the attendees were inside a sweatlodge-like structure, a low dome covered in blankets and tarpaulins. According to the event promoter's website, the attendees were promised "magnificent results, wealth, adventure, and fulfillment", and they paid $9695 to be there.
Now, I have once before attended a big motivational training event which billed itself rather similarly to James Ray's event. It took place in the Metro Toronto Convention Centre, and was attended by about 2,200 people. I won't say what it was called in case the company that hosted the event sues me. (They've sued other people into bankruptcy for criticising them before, even when excellent evidence was presented of psychological harms done.) I will say that it made heavy use of a psychological behaviour-modification device called Neuro-Linguistic Programming, as well as the repetition of self-help mantras, intense peer pressure, fear-mongering, scapegoating, suppression of rational criticism, and demands for obedience and submission to the leader. Indeed we were all told that we had to "switch off the left-side of the brain" in order to benefit from the training, and that this switching-off of the critical faculties constituted a form of "thinking outside the box of social conformity".
The vocabulary being employed in the training was the usual pop-psychology language of "light", "energy", "empowerment", "freedom", "colouring outside the lines", "I create my world", "the laws of the universe", "positive attitude", "unlimited potential", "growth", "change", "awareness", "purging negativity", and the like. This language is appealing because it appears to have an internal consistency, and helps some people feel good about themselves. And the end goal of the training, of course, was material gain -- attendees were promised that if they could learn to think they way the trainer wanted them to think, using this vocabulary, they would get rich. But this is a false promise. No one can get rich just by thinking about it, or wishing for it. And I have doubts about whether this language actually corresponds to real phenomena in the world. Indeed I suspect it may be an elaborate psychological projection, a fantasy world that enables people to think well of themselves and thus is preferable to the reality of being unemployed, disempowered, and perhaps physically unhealthy too, which is the reality for so many people who find this kind of talk appealing.
Also, it should be added, as a therapy device it doesn't work.
After the three days of intense psychological pressure to conform, for 14 hours each day, I felt as if my mind had been invaded. My body was shaking with symptoms of post-traumatic stress (which mostly disappeared after I let go of the relationship that brought me there). Every once in a while it still bothers me, even three years later.
All the evidence I've seen so far tells me that the "Spiritual Warrior Event", where the two people died, is broadly similar. Of course I would not have imagined that anyone would die at such an event. But even excepting these deaths and hospitalizations as accidental, I still think such events are severely morally harmful to the attendees. In my judgment, it is always morally wrong to usurp someone's autonomous reason by psychological manipulation, even if you think you are benefitting that person or promoting that person's interests. To be clear, it is never in anyone's interest to hijack their free minds, for any purpose, and no amount of Utilitarian ends-justify-the-means discussion will convince me otherwise. Your free mind is your heart and soul, your very self, and if you give that away, even freely, you will be lost.
Those of you who have criticised me in the past for being "too intellectual", or for criticizing the role of intuition in the spiritual life, need to understand how dangerous it is to suspend your capacity for reason. Your intelligent mind is your ability to systematically explore and understand reality, and it is your last and best line of defense against fear, conformity, and domination and other attacks on your freedom, from the small scale of office bullying, to the large scale of political oppression and totalitarianism. So, friends, please, avoid all "training" or "empowering" events which employ anti-rational psychological devices like NLP, whether at a pop psychology training weekend, or a religious ritual, or a political rally, or the like, whether the gathering is large or small. And please discourage people you know from attending them. You might think you are being given a healthy empowering spiritual gift, but in fact you are being given a drug, the psychological equivalent of heroine. It's just as pleasurable in the short term, but just as psychotropically addictive, and just as destructive in the long term to your life and the lives of others around you.
And let me add, as a final note, that you don't need to attend any of these quasi-new-age, pop psychology training weekends, and you don't need to pay anyone thousands of dollars, to learn about the warrior way. Why not buy my book instead, for 0.25% of the cost of attending his seminar? You'll learn the ethos of ancient warrior societies like the Celts, Vikings, Homeric Greeks, and others. You won't be subjected to NLP brainwashing. And you won't die as a result of reading it.
It appears that the attendees were inside a sweatlodge-like structure, a low dome covered in blankets and tarpaulins. According to the event promoter's website, the attendees were promised "magnificent results, wealth, adventure, and fulfillment", and they paid $9695 to be there.
Now, I have once before attended a big motivational training event which billed itself rather similarly to James Ray's event. It took place in the Metro Toronto Convention Centre, and was attended by about 2,200 people. I won't say what it was called in case the company that hosted the event sues me. (They've sued other people into bankruptcy for criticising them before, even when excellent evidence was presented of psychological harms done.) I will say that it made heavy use of a psychological behaviour-modification device called Neuro-Linguistic Programming, as well as the repetition of self-help mantras, intense peer pressure, fear-mongering, scapegoating, suppression of rational criticism, and demands for obedience and submission to the leader. Indeed we were all told that we had to "switch off the left-side of the brain" in order to benefit from the training, and that this switching-off of the critical faculties constituted a form of "thinking outside the box of social conformity".
The vocabulary being employed in the training was the usual pop-psychology language of "light", "energy", "empowerment", "freedom", "colouring outside the lines", "I create my world", "the laws of the universe", "positive attitude", "unlimited potential", "growth", "change", "awareness", "purging negativity", and the like. This language is appealing because it appears to have an internal consistency, and helps some people feel good about themselves. And the end goal of the training, of course, was material gain -- attendees were promised that if they could learn to think they way the trainer wanted them to think, using this vocabulary, they would get rich. But this is a false promise. No one can get rich just by thinking about it, or wishing for it. And I have doubts about whether this language actually corresponds to real phenomena in the world. Indeed I suspect it may be an elaborate psychological projection, a fantasy world that enables people to think well of themselves and thus is preferable to the reality of being unemployed, disempowered, and perhaps physically unhealthy too, which is the reality for so many people who find this kind of talk appealing.
Also, it should be added, as a therapy device it doesn't work.
After the three days of intense psychological pressure to conform, for 14 hours each day, I felt as if my mind had been invaded. My body was shaking with symptoms of post-traumatic stress (which mostly disappeared after I let go of the relationship that brought me there). Every once in a while it still bothers me, even three years later.
All the evidence I've seen so far tells me that the "Spiritual Warrior Event", where the two people died, is broadly similar. Of course I would not have imagined that anyone would die at such an event. But even excepting these deaths and hospitalizations as accidental, I still think such events are severely morally harmful to the attendees. In my judgment, it is always morally wrong to usurp someone's autonomous reason by psychological manipulation, even if you think you are benefitting that person or promoting that person's interests. To be clear, it is never in anyone's interest to hijack their free minds, for any purpose, and no amount of Utilitarian ends-justify-the-means discussion will convince me otherwise. Your free mind is your heart and soul, your very self, and if you give that away, even freely, you will be lost.
Those of you who have criticised me in the past for being "too intellectual", or for criticizing the role of intuition in the spiritual life, need to understand how dangerous it is to suspend your capacity for reason. Your intelligent mind is your ability to systematically explore and understand reality, and it is your last and best line of defense against fear, conformity, and domination and other attacks on your freedom, from the small scale of office bullying, to the large scale of political oppression and totalitarianism. So, friends, please, avoid all "training" or "empowering" events which employ anti-rational psychological devices like NLP, whether at a pop psychology training weekend, or a religious ritual, or a political rally, or the like, whether the gathering is large or small. And please discourage people you know from attending them. You might think you are being given a healthy empowering spiritual gift, but in fact you are being given a drug, the psychological equivalent of heroine. It's just as pleasurable in the short term, but just as psychotropically addictive, and just as destructive in the long term to your life and the lives of others around you.
And let me add, as a final note, that you don't need to attend any of these quasi-new-age, pop psychology training weekends, and you don't need to pay anyone thousands of dollars, to learn about the warrior way. Why not buy my book instead, for 0.25% of the cost of attending his seminar? You'll learn the ethos of ancient warrior societies like the Celts, Vikings, Homeric Greeks, and others. You won't be subjected to NLP brainwashing. And you won't die as a result of reading it.


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I would like to add that there are a few doing NLP in a rational way that does not involve any psychological manipulation. The field in general is in a sorry state, but some have managed to use these communication tools in ethical, congruent, and respectful ways. See the work of Steve and Connirae Andreas for example, which is mostly about therapy and healing (for instance they created techniques for effective forgiveness and grieving) instead of sales, power, or money-making.
I met Mr. Ray once. He was so split from his own soul, it was almost difficult not to react to the immense pain he holds.
And as I have been telling people for a year now. if you want to be at peace, you must end the War.
their is a purpose in it, as we both know. But what were we before we had to become warriors. That is what I desire to create. Just Love and Joy.
thank you for your perspective!
J
Thank you both for posting about this. Brendon's post reminds us of the danger's involved and W_D's about the potential benefits of NLP and Hypnosis.
I was actually just thinking about this the other day when flipping through an old "Druid magic" book that I'd never bothered to finish reading. This time through, I found myself suddenly concerned that some of the exercises encouraged this kind of switching-off of the rational mind (or suggesting that certain practices tapped into energetic or psychic powers when really they had fairly common physiological explanations). It made me rather nervous to think of earnest readers trusting to the sometimes erroneous and potentially harmful advice of the author, going through these elaborate exercises that could easily cause more stress and mental noise than clarity of thought. Of course, a book that can be set aside or tested over time is tame compared to the kind of intense social experience you're talking about. I shudder to think (or rather, not to think :-p).
In any case, it's a very important issue that I wish more people would take seriously as having potentially devastating repercussions. The spiritual life is one of vulnerability as well as mystery, and needs to be approached slowly, I think, with a foundation of real trust (not misplaced in flashy titles and expensive promises) and self-examination. Spiritual shallowness and anti-intellectualism are the least of our worries, when harm of a deeper and more lasting sort is also a potential danger.
Hi Ali! Long time no see!
I don't think I have all that much clout, really. Lots of other druidic and pagan writers are more prolific writers and more influential than I am. (Including, I suspect, the author of the old "Druid Magic" book you mentioned.) But I appreciate the thought. :-)
Spiritual shallowness and anti-intellectualism are the least of our worries, when harm of a deeper and more lasting sort is also a potential danger
I cannot disagree. :-)
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The... Dr... is... in...
Yes, my minions!
Remember to recite the sacred Brendanist mantra every day:
I promise to be unique!
I promise to be different!
I promise not to repeat what other people say!
:-)
I also like your phrasing: Suspension of capacity for reasoning.
Very few of these types of workshops pose direct physical threat - but what they do pose, as is evidenced by the response from mainstream culture (i.e. a response of fear and non-acceptance of these 'fringe dwellers' and 'new age' gurus), is a direct attack on societal norm and indoctrinated 'self image'.
I attribute much of my current success, much of my growth in awareness, in community connection, in depth of presence and passion, to the personal development work I've been doing over the past several years. I've never once felt brainwashed, never once felt that my 'mind' was at risk. Typically speaking, the best way to tame the beast of the Ego is to disregard the 'intellect' and move firmly into the world of heart and the world of action. Living life in this world is a bodily practice - not an intellectual pursuit.
"Your intelligent mind is your ability to systematically explore and understand reality, and it is your last and best line of defense against fear, conformity, and domination and other attacks on your freedom, from the small scale of office bullying, to the large scale of political oppression and totalitarianism."
In my experience, the mind is the source of fear, conformity and domination. The best line of defense against those is the way of the heart in action. You can't overcome fear through Cartesian couch-surfing - you have to get up and DO SOMETHING.
Reading a book will not make you a better person, and while you may learn about the Ethos of warrior societies, you certainly wont be able to 'live' that Ethos without concrete action and a concerted effort to overcome the fears we've concocted in our minds.
My experience with the personal development organizations I've worked with has been extremely powerful and transformative, and has informed and influenced every aspect of my mental, physical and spiritual expression. And I am eternally grateful each time I'm reminded that the world isn't always what I 'think' it to be.
West (http://west.fm)
If everything is potentially holy, and has the presence of the divine spirit(s) within it, why is the intellect, the desire to question or resist, and the very necessary drive towards self-preservation (as in the James Ray case) exempt from this? This drives me nuts, to say the least...
But then again, on so many occasions, I've been the one "objecting" to something that has been done, or that has been suggested, in these types of events...so, of course, I'm biased and totally wrong in thinking that, hey, the gods gave me my doubting and critical mind to, perhaps, save my arse from getting abused or hurt...!?!
In any case, thanks for your post here!